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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=21404'&gt;jbarajas0490&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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                          now this is an entertaining thread! all because of one simple word i said, and thanks for throwing my facebook out there!</description>
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                            <pubDate>Sun, 5 Feb 2012 22:30:25 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18748'&gt;Jackwc&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/05/2012 05:02&lt;br /&gt;
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                          Genre snobs are dumb bitches.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;forum-bbcode-font-size-7&quot; style=&quot;line-height: normal&quot;&gt;By posting this video I am in no way supporting Banksy - he's a talentless hack of a painter&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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                            <dc:creator>Jackwc</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sun, 5 Feb 2012 00:02:10 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=21278'&gt;vesander&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/05/2012 04:58&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;40footwolf wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;I appreciate your position, Norman, but the thing about racism is that it can only be helped with silence, not hindered. I'm not at all trying to apply that you guys are &quot;accomplices&quot; with Gary or barajas but racists, by nature, take silence as a sort of tacit acceptance of their views. These are ideas that need to be countered swiftly and aggressively no matter where you see them. I'm not even saying it'll do any good in this case, but it can't hurt. At best you change someone's mind, at worst you piss off a bigot. &lt;br /&gt;
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I don't know if I actually will be taking that long of a break from BEA...I didn't announce it on this thread to be a drama queen, since I hate that kind of shit, I just wanted people to know that I found those views unacceptable and didn't wish to be a part of a community that accepted them. I grew up in a very ethnically diverse community, with a lot of friends who are very involved with social justice; these things are a big sore spot for me and it's likely that my haste to leave was poorly thought out. I DO need to think about where I stand with these forums, but it would be a shame to lose a lot of good conversation with a lot of smart, funny people just because a few unfortunate souls rub me the wrong way. &lt;br /&gt;
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I really couldn't disagree more. It's almost like you've never used the internet. Silence is the killer. It is far from &quot;tacit acceptance&quot;. Silence stifles stupidity. In fact, your rant (half valid / half sanctimonious and tiresome) is exactly what a guy like that wants in return... more attention. Attention is his form of acceptance and you give him an audience. You are the oxygen to his fire. If you had left it alone for the moderators to handle the nonsense would have died in the vacuum. Instead we had pages of uselessness. Like Norman Bates said, we ended up having a prolonged discussion on race and BS.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>vesander</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 23:58:14 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=21278'&gt;vesander&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/05/2012 04:46&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jhereko wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;I'm a musician and love hip-hop. There are plenty of musicians that do. I really don't think you can attribute not enjoying it that much to that. Sometimes you just don't like genres as much as other people. I struggle with Metal (but I'm trying!) for no other eason than I struggle with the genre.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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The problem with hip hop is that most of the stuff you hear is just so unbearably ignorant and 1-note. You want to fuck a girl with a big ass... oh and make lots of money - we get it. And the thing is it's gotten more stupid with time not less. &lt;span style=&quot;text-decoration: underline&quot;&gt;There is good stuff out there, but you have to work so hard to find it that people stop searching.&lt;/span&gt; Anyway should it be so hard and should anyone really make an extra effort to seek out quality in specific genres? If so, then why not give every genre the same shot? I find that there are people who make excessive efforts to like jazz or hip hop but not death metal or elektro industrial. Why not?&lt;br /&gt;
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Personally I'm always scanning multiple genres for new and interesting stuff but I'm not going to beat my head against a wall until I force myself to love dub step.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>vesander</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 23:46:35 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=21278'&gt;vesander&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/05/2012 04:33&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Norman Bates wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;HigherThanTheSun wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;As far as I can tell there's not a single Rap or Hip Hop album in the top 100. What's up with that does noone here like the genre?&lt;br /&gt;
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This interesting question has been raised many times over the years at BEA, and I think the answers you get here are pretty accurate (except for Barajas of course). It's all a question of audience of the site, people here are more into indie rock stuff than anything else (and that's counting myself, to be frank). Personally I like rap very much, but discovered it way after every other genre that might have mattered for me ; hence the relatively small proportion of rap in my charts - it simply wasn't the culture I was raised in, even though I was born in the 70s. I'm still catching up &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Smile&quot;&gt;😄&lt;/span&gt; and hope I'll be for quite some time too! So much great music to be listened to in rap.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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People here may be &quot;more into indie rock&quot;, but if you check the major music sources (Rolling Stone, Spin, NME, etc.), you typically will find bands like Radiohead, The Smiths, Joy Division, Sonic Youth and Arcade Fire very high on their lists too. It could be that people who listen to a ton of music (let's call them &quot;experts&quot;) just think those are truly better albums.&lt;br /&gt;
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What I'm saying is I don't think indie is all that much more emphasized here than many of the traditional sources.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>vesander</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 23:33:18 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18180'&gt;GARY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 23:08&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;RFNAPLES wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GARY wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Also, as has been steted many times on here before. If you have a problem with someone, go 2 that person with it first. Certainly before you go 2 the extreme antics of Wolf  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Rolling Eyes&quot;&gt;🙄&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Heed your own advice.  Seems like you're always bitchin at somebody publicly.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Never PM Naples  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Exclamation&quot;&gt;❗&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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He will post your PM in the forum. He has done it 2 me, he will do it 2 you also.&lt;br /&gt;
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Thanks for the reminder Naples  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Very Happy&quot;&gt;😁&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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                            <dc:creator>GARY</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 18:08:43 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=15168'&gt;RFNAPLES&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:59&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GARY wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Also, as has been steted many times on here before. If you have a problem with someone, go 2 that person with it first. Certainly before you go 2 the extreme antics of Wolf  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Rolling Eyes&quot;&gt;🙄&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Heed your own advice.  Seems like you're always bitchin at somebody publicly.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>RFNAPLES</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:59:50 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18180'&gt;GARY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:41&lt;br /&gt;
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There are over 10,000 members of BEA from all over the planet with all different colors and ages etc.&lt;br /&gt;
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The truth is everyone is not going 2 become best of friends with everyone else.&lt;br /&gt;
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Ain't hapnin people. &lt;br /&gt;
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But, there is a great cure for those you don't like and it works great  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Very Happy&quot;&gt;😁&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.besteveralbums.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2674&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.besteveralbums.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2674&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Also, as has been steted many times on here before. If you have a problem with someone, go 2 that person with it first. Certainly before you go 2 the extreme antics of Wolf  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Rolling Eyes&quot;&gt;🙄&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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I have NEVER, EVER, in the year + that I have been a member received even ONE PM from Wolf about any problem he had with me.&lt;br /&gt;
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                            <dc:creator>GARY</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:41:04 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=21128'&gt;junodog4&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:37&lt;br /&gt;
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                          Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish.  There`s no point arguing with some.  I`m good with banning those who are overtly racist, sexist, homophobic, &amp; what-not. Probably the best way to deal with them.  Don`t leave - If all the tolerant, open-minded people left the site, it would be left to... well, you know.  Please stick around.  Maybe just avoid the politics forum.   &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Confused&quot;&gt;😕&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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I like hip-hop.  I think more of it belongs on this site.&lt;br /&gt;
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Maybe genre-specific charts would help hip-hops profile, but that might be artificially inflating it.</description>
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                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:37:02 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=17749'&gt;mooseboy101&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:29:30 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18180'&gt;GARY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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This is beautiful, here come all the little kids who will gang up on me cuz they can't handle the truth.&lt;br /&gt;
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Please continue  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Very Happy&quot;&gt;😁&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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                            <dc:creator>GARY</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:24:09 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18180'&gt;GARY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:22&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jackwc wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GARY wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;40footwolf wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Norman Bates wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Wolf: you spoke well, and you spoke the truth. But I don't see how not answering Gary because we know it's useless makes us accomplices of what barajas said. That's equal to being called a racist as well. I'd rather let racists rant and let it die unnoticed than being called a racist myself. &lt;br /&gt;
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Let's put it this way: if you want to start a fight with a racist, no-one will &quot;win&quot;. And certainly not the people insulted by the racist comments. Plus you'll get endless discussion about &quot;races&quot; (I'll use the word you used, although I personally don't believe human &quot;races&quot; exist), which can only encourage more bitterness and mad, disgusting comments. I personally trusted the moderators to deal with the matter efficiently, that has now been done, and rightly so. I don't think you should leave, but that's your call, although I won't be happy with it if you do.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I appreciate your position, Norman, but the thing about racism is that it can only be helped with silence, not hindered. I'm not at all trying to apply that you guys are &quot;accomplices&quot; with Gary or barajas but racists, by nature, take silence as a sort of tacit acceptance of their views. These are ideas that need to be countered swiftly and aggressively no matter where you see them. I'm not even saying it'll do any good in this case, but it can't hurt. At best you change someone's mind, at worst you piss off a bigot. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I don't know if I actually will be taking that long of a break from BEA...I didn't announce it on this thread to be a drama queen, since I hate that kind of shit, I just wanted people to know that I found those views unacceptable and didn't wish to be a part of a community that accepted them. I grew up in a very ethnically diverse community, with a lot of friends who are very involved with social justice; these things are a big sore spot for me and it's likely that my haste to leave was poorly thought out. I DO need to think about where I stand with these forums, but it would be a shame to lose a lot of good conversation with a lot of smart, funny people just because a few unfortunate souls rub me the wrong way. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
We shall see, I suppose.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Don't let the door hit you in the ass woofie&lt;br /&gt;
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  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Applause&quot;&gt;'&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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Perhaps you could follow him out.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Perhaps you could follow him out .</description>
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                            <dc:creator>GARY</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:22:42 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18748'&gt;Jackwc&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:20&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GARY wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;40footwolf wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Norman Bates wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Wolf: you spoke well, and you spoke the truth. But I don't see how not answering Gary because we know it's useless makes us accomplices of what barajas said. That's equal to being called a racist as well. I'd rather let racists rant and let it die unnoticed than being called a racist myself. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Let's put it this way: if you want to start a fight with a racist, no-one will &quot;win&quot;. And certainly not the people insulted by the racist comments. Plus you'll get endless discussion about &quot;races&quot; (I'll use the word you used, although I personally don't believe human &quot;races&quot; exist), which can only encourage more bitterness and mad, disgusting comments. I personally trusted the moderators to deal with the matter efficiently, that has now been done, and rightly so. I don't think you should leave, but that's your call, although I won't be happy with it if you do.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I appreciate your position, Norman, but the thing about racism is that it can only be helped with silence, not hindered. I'm not at all trying to apply that you guys are &quot;accomplices&quot; with Gary or barajas but racists, by nature, take silence as a sort of tacit acceptance of their views. These are ideas that need to be countered swiftly and aggressively no matter where you see them. I'm not even saying it'll do any good in this case, but it can't hurt. At best you change someone's mind, at worst you piss off a bigot. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I don't know if I actually will be taking that long of a break from BEA...I didn't announce it on this thread to be a drama queen, since I hate that kind of shit, I just wanted people to know that I found those views unacceptable and didn't wish to be a part of a community that accepted them. I grew up in a very ethnically diverse community, with a lot of friends who are very involved with social justice; these things are a big sore spot for me and it's likely that my haste to leave was poorly thought out. I DO need to think about where I stand with these forums, but it would be a shame to lose a lot of good conversation with a lot of smart, funny people just because a few unfortunate souls rub me the wrong way. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
We shall see, I suppose.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Don't let the door hit you in the ass woofie&lt;br /&gt;
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  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Applause&quot;&gt;'&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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Perhaps you could follow him out.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>Jackwc</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:20:34 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18180'&gt;GARY&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:16&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;40footwolf wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Norman Bates wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Wolf: you spoke well, and you spoke the truth. But I don't see how not answering Gary because we know it's useless makes us accomplices of what barajas said. That's equal to being called a racist as well. I'd rather let racists rant and let it die unnoticed than being called a racist myself. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Let's put it this way: if you want to start a fight with a racist, no-one will &quot;win&quot;. And certainly not the people insulted by the racist comments. Plus you'll get endless discussion about &quot;races&quot; (I'll use the word you used, although I personally don't believe human &quot;races&quot; exist), which can only encourage more bitterness and mad, disgusting comments. I personally trusted the moderators to deal with the matter efficiently, that has now been done, and rightly so. I don't think you should leave, but that's your call, although I won't be happy with it if you do.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I appreciate your position, Norman, but the thing about racism is that it can only be helped with silence, not hindered. I'm not at all trying to apply that you guys are &quot;accomplices&quot; with Gary or barajas but racists, by nature, take silence as a sort of tacit acceptance of their views. These are ideas that need to be countered swiftly and aggressively no matter where you see them. I'm not even saying it'll do any good in this case, but it can't hurt. At best you change someone's mind, at worst you piss off a bigot. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I don't know if I actually will be taking that long of a break from BEA...I didn't announce it on this thread to be a drama queen, since I hate that kind of shit, I just wanted people to know that I found those views unacceptable and didn't wish to be a part of a community that accepted them. I grew up in a very ethnically diverse community, with a lot of friends who are very involved with social justice; these things are a big sore spot for me and it's likely that my haste to leave was poorly thought out. I DO need to think about where I stand with these forums, but it would be a shame to lose a lot of good conversation with a lot of smart, funny people just because a few unfortunate souls rub me the wrong way. &lt;br /&gt;
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We shall see, I suppose.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Don't let the door hit you in the ass woofie&lt;br /&gt;
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  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Applause&quot;&gt;'&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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                            <dc:creator>GARY</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:16:15 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=15797'&gt;40footwolf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 22:04&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Norman Bates wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Wolf: you spoke well, and you spoke the truth. But I don't see how not answering Gary because we know it's useless makes us accomplices of what barajas said. That's equal to being called a racist as well. I'd rather let racists rant and let it die unnoticed than being called a racist myself. &lt;br /&gt;
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Let's put it this way: if you want to start a fight with a racist, no-one will &quot;win&quot;. And certainly not the people insulted by the racist comments. Plus you'll get endless discussion about &quot;races&quot; (I'll use the word you used, although I personally don't believe human &quot;races&quot; exist), which can only encourage more bitterness and mad, disgusting comments. I personally trusted the moderators to deal with the matter efficiently, that has now been done, and rightly so. I don't think you should leave, but that's your call, although I won't be happy with it if you do.&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I appreciate your position, Norman, but the thing about racism is that it can only be helped with silence, not hindered. I'm not at all trying to apply that you guys are &quot;accomplices&quot; with Gary or barajas but racists, by nature, take silence as a sort of tacit acceptance of their views. These are ideas that need to be countered swiftly and aggressively no matter where you see them. I'm not even saying it'll do any good in this case, but it can't hurt. At best you change someone's mind, at worst you piss off a bigot. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I don't know if I actually will be taking that long of a break from BEA...I didn't announce it on this thread to be a drama queen, since I hate that kind of shit, I just wanted people to know that I found those views unacceptable and didn't wish to be a part of a community that accepted them. I grew up in a very ethnically diverse community, with a lot of friends who are very involved with social justice; these things are a big sore spot for me and it's likely that my haste to leave was poorly thought out. I DO need to think about where I stand with these forums, but it would be a shame to lose a lot of good conversation with a lot of smart, funny people just because a few unfortunate souls rub me the wrong way. &lt;br /&gt;
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We shall see, I suppose.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>40footwolf</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 17:04:00 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=15562'&gt;Norman Bates&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 21:25&lt;br /&gt;
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                          Wolf: you spoke well, and you spoke the truth. But I don't see how not answering Gary because we know it's useless makes us accomplices of what barajas said. That's equal to being called a racist as well. I'd rather let racists rant and let it die unnoticed than being called a racist myself. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Let's put it this way: if you want to start a fight with a racist, no-one will &quot;win&quot;. And certainly not the people insulted by the racist comments. Plus you'll get endless discussion about &quot;races&quot; (I'll use the word you used, although I personally don't believe human &quot;races&quot; exist), which can only encourage more bitterness and mad, disgusting comments. I personally trusted the moderators to deal with the matter efficiently, that has now been done, and rightly so. I don't think you should leave, but that's your call, although I won't be happy with it if you do.</description>
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                            <dc:creator>Norman Bates</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 16:25:05 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=17748'&gt;19loveless91&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 21:16&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jhereko wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;Wolf, things were said (to jbarajas), he was banned for goodness sake. Just because not everyone posted a long rant doesn't mean things weren't said. If you mean GARY's ignorant comment, I think most people felt that addressing it would lead to a painful and useless argument -a waste of breath if you will. I guess it comes down to the fact of whether you consider people not saying exactly what they think for everyone to see as apathy or not. I think it's not necessary for you to audibly disapprove of something to be against it. Ignoring the thing itself (GARY's comment for the most part went ignored) due to it's ignorance is powerful in itself.&lt;br /&gt;
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So please, don't leave because you feel like BEA doesn't care about this sort of thing. and please...don't leave  :(&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
a hundred times this ^^^^</description>
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                            <dc:creator>19loveless91</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 16:16:11 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=-1'&gt;Anonymous&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 21:00&lt;br /&gt;
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                          Wolf, things were said (to jbarajas), he was banned for goodness sake. Just because not everyone posted a long rant doesn't mean things weren't said. If you mean GARY's ignorant comment, I think most people felt that addressing it would lead to a painful and useless argument -a waste of breath if you will. I guess it comes down to the fact of whether you consider people not saying exactly what they think for everyone to see as apathy or not. I think it's not necessary for you to audibly disapprove of something to be against it. Ignoring the thing itself (GARY's comment for the most part went ignored) due to it's ignorance is powerful in itself.&lt;br /&gt;
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So please, don't leave because you feel like BEA doesn't care about this sort of thing. and please...don't leave  &lt;span class=&quot;emoji&quot; title=&quot;Sad&quot;&gt;🙁&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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                            <dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 16:00:13 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=18748'&gt;Jackwc&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 20:59&lt;br /&gt;
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                          Nooooo! Wooooolf! ;  _  ;</description>
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                            <dc:creator>Jackwc</dc:creator>
                            <pubDate>Sat, 4 Feb 2012 15:59:11 GMT</pubDate>
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                            <title>Re: Rap and Hip hop on Best Ever Albums?</title>
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                            <description>Author: &lt;a href='https://www.besteveralbums.com/forums/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&amp;u=15797'&gt;40footwolf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
                          Posted: 02/04/2012 20:40&lt;br /&gt;
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                          &lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GARY wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;table class=&quot;bbquote-container&quot;&gt;&lt;tr&gt; 	  &lt;td class=&quot;text-left&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;jbarajas wrote:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;	&lt;tr&gt;	  &lt;td class=&quot;bbquote&quot;&gt;can't help it.... it's the way we're brought up in this state  :wink:&lt;/td&gt;	&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;postbody&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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That is quite true, I used 2 live there, jbarajas speaks the truth.&lt;br /&gt;
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And in the Milwaukee area (Where I think he lives) people say exactly what is on their mind without filters. They are not politically correct.&lt;br /&gt;
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Also, Milwaukee is one of the most segregated cities in the world.&lt;br /&gt;
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Personally, I have no problem with how he words things. &lt;br /&gt;
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And after all, if it's O.K. for blacks 2 use a word, then guess what, it's O.K. for a white, yellow, green, or red person 2 use it also.&lt;br /&gt;
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I like talking with people on BEA a lot. I like it when the peace is kept, and everyone is getting along. I have people I don't want to talk to, like Gary, on ignore so that that peace can continue. But the fact that somebody can say something this ignorant, and that nobody else is going to say something about it...I can't abide. Just can't, just won't. I wouldn't let this pass in real life and I'm not going to do it on the internet. &lt;br /&gt;
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So here is, as calmly as I can put it, a point-by-point refutation to this...nonsense. If Gary wants to throw a fit after he reads this, as he is wont to do, homeboy can go to town. &lt;br /&gt;
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First off, where you live is never, ever an excuse for using racial slurs of any kind. I'm sure there are a lot of people in Milwaukee who have the decency to not refer to their fellow man as a term that has been used for centuries degrade and dehumanize them. To say that &quot;it's not his fault, he's from Milwaukee&quot; is an insult to everyone in Milwaukee who isn't a racist.&lt;br /&gt;
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Secondly, &quot;politically correct&quot; and &quot;respectful&quot; are not synonyms, nor should they be regarded as such. It is not &quot;politically correct&quot; to not wish for somebody to use one of the most vile, hateful words in the English language. It is simply &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic&quot;&gt;humane&lt;/span&gt;. Your 1st amendment rights allow you to use the word, of course; your first amendment rights ALSO make it so that you can't complain if people call you a bigoted sack of shit for doing so. It's a two-way street. You not having a problem with how he &quot;words things&quot;, aka uses slurs, has no bearing whatsoever on whether other people should or should not have a problem with it. &lt;br /&gt;
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Finally, and most importantly, white people have this extraordinary, juvenile misconception that America is on an even playing field racially and that they can say whatever they want to whoever they want and nobody should have the right to be offended. It is NOT an even playing field. Many people across the country and in fact across the world still use that word to debase and demean black people every single day. Do you not think it's fair that black people are &quot;allowed&quot; to say the word and you aren't? Tough fucking shit. It doesn't carry the same weight for you as it does for them; it doesn't carry the same history and the same vile connotations every time you hear it as it does when a black person hears it. Black people using it among themselves is a way of reappropriation(see: &lt;a href=&quot;http://web.archive.org/web/20051025220344/http://mpsa.indiana.edu/conf2003papers/1032831537.pdf).&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://web.archive.org/web/200510252203...1537.pdf).&lt;/a&gt; It is an &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic&quot;&gt;absolutely different context&lt;/span&gt; when different races use it. And not everyone agrees that the word should be used at all, even in the black community! However, how blacks do or do not decide to use the word has no bearing whatsoever on whether or not you can use it. You can't. If you can, you'll be called, at the very least, an ignorant fuckstain, and correctly so. &lt;br /&gt;
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I've said all I'm going to say on the matter. The fact that somebody can make a statement so devoid of consciousness and have nobody stand up to correct it is frankly disappointing and I expected better of many members of BEA. If I know Gary, this is going to send him into a boiling, white-hot rage and he's going to call me a bitch cock fuckhugger or some other equally incoherent sting of insults that are used half-correctly. I don't care. I'm done putting up with this kind of thinking, and I'm done putting up with people who put up with this kind of thinking. &lt;br /&gt;
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I'm done with this site for a while. I don't know if I'll be back any time soon. Expect a PM shortly if I like you; there are a few people on this site that I don't want to lose contact with.</description>
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