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SuedeSwede wrote:

Ha. Totally forgot I posted here. Well, she's been completely forgetting about my friend and I to start off with, so I asked her about that and she said she "wants me out of her life", for no apparent reason whatsoever. Anyhow, I then hear that she has been questioning my sexuality and saying hurtful comments about me behind my back to, and this makes it worse, a friend's father. I prompted her on it politely, and she then proceeded to call me a prick straight away and said "if you don't trust me you can fuck off", essentially. And I don't trust her to be fair, she lies about a lot, evidently. So one thing leads to another, her boyfriend gets involved, my friend starts talking to her boyfriend, her boyfriend threatens my friend, her boyfriend's friend threatens my friend, and there's probably going to be a fight going down soon, a pretty big one, not just a one-on-one either. I felt like I'd caused this but I realised it was pretty much all her doing - she's the kind of girl to try and get other people to sort her problems out resorting to violence. Anyway, I'm staying well out of these fights, and I'm staying well away from her from now on. BEA, you are now allowed to say, "I told you so".

Hahaha, this really brings me back to high school. Saw these situations a lot, and typically if there's a lot of talk it's just talk and no fight is gonna happen - most of the fights that actually went down with me were typically escalated on the spot, heat of the moment-type deals. But I dunno, maybe that's just our Canadian sensibilities, maybe Americans put more planning into their fist fights. Laughing

That's super shitty though, man, sounds like she has some serious issues to work out/at worst is a sociopath. It's likely she's just lashing out because she's hurt and confused - she wants to assume you're gay so that you were never an option and she'll be able to live on with her boyfriend without any doubts. Your persisting presence makes her question her decision so she has to vilify you. Whateves, "plenty of fish in the sea" and all that shit. Just don't do anything stupid like get involved in this fight or be instigating with her boyfriend, that'll just end poorly obviously.

Also in other news my girlfriend and I broke up today; we're keeping it casual, so we're still gonna chill and... uh... "stuff", but we won't be in a relationship anymore. For the best.
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Jackwc wrote:

Hahaha, this really brings me back to high school. Saw these situations a lot, and typically if there's a lot of talk it's just talk and no fight is gonna happen - most of the fights that actually went down with me were typically escalated on the spot, heat of the moment-type deals. But I dunno, maybe that's just our Canadian sensibilities, maybe Americans put more planning into their fist fights. Laughing

That's super shitty though, man, sounds like she has some serious issues to work out/at worst is a sociopath. It's likely she's just lashing out because she's hurt and confused - she wants to assume you're gay so that you were never an option and she'll be able to live on with her boyfriend without any doubts. Your persisting presence makes her question her decision so she has to vilify you. Whateves, "plenty of fish in the sea" and all that shit. Just don't do anything stupid like get involved in this fight or be instigating with her boyfriend, that'll just end poorly obviously.

Also in other news my girlfriend and I broke up today; we're keeping it casual, so we're still gonna chill and... uh... "stuff", but we won't be in a relationship anymore. For the best.

Americans may put more planning into their fist fights, but that wouldn't affect a Brit like me, surely? Laughing

The bit in bold just proves to the whole community that you always hit the nail on the head with these things. I don't think things through very often, that's brilliant Very Happy

anyways, I was over her sometime ago, I just wanted to remain in a good friendship, but now I just want to leave her alone, I don't like her attitude.

That's sad, but at least you seem to have things sorted. Have you...?
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Any fight that's planned will almost always not happen, it definitely needs to be a heat of the moment type thing, it takes most people quite a lot before they feel like actually punching someone's face. I remember getting excited for fights that had been planned at school so many times and only once was it not a massive disappointment.

But yeah, this girl seems crazy, leave her alone.
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