Please Don't Ask (track)
by Genesis

Please Don't Ask by Genesis
Year: 1980
From the album Duke (track #10)
Average Rating: 
75/100 (from 90 votes)
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75/100 (from 90 votes)
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01/04/2026 09:39 zsolti  Ratings distribution  7,03080/100
 
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10/01/2025 11:29 dukeboxkool  Ratings distribution  7,60575/100
 
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From 10/04/2021 16:59 | #274671
This wouldn't have looked out of place on Face Value but it's given the Genesis treatment here. Well sung and it's played beautifully.
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From 07/31/2020 02:08 | #256483
Maybe the saddest Genesis song of all. Only the second song written entirely by Collins, it's clearly heavily inspired by his recent divorce, and the lyrics reflect the painful longing for the days of a united family. Powerful stuff for only his second solo song. Musically, I do think it steps a little too far into cheesy '80s synthpop, undercutting the power of the lyrics, but Banks does deliver a really touching piano performance under all the haze, and Rutherford's bass line is one of the best on the album. If you're into bittersweet '80s pop, this is the song for you.
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