We're Not Here To Be Loved (studio album)
by Fleshwater
Fleshwater bestography
We're Not Here To Be Loved is ranked as the best album by Fleshwater.
(N.B. Bestographies include all albums by an artist (and their variations), but do not include albums ranked outside the top 100,000).
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We're Not Here To Be Loved track list
The tracks on this album have an average rating of 73 out of 100 (all tracks have been rated).
We're Not Here To Be Loved rankings
| Year | Source | Chart | Rank | Rank Score |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2025 | yzyluvr | Top 40 Greatest Music Albums | 27/40 | 32 |
| 2025 | VanillaBean | Top 49 Music Albums of the 2020s | 6/49 | 11 |
| 2025 | Top 42 Music Albums of the 2020s | 18/42 | 7 | |
| 2025 | Top 100 Music Albums of 2022 | 29/100 | 4 | |
| 2025 | VanillaBean | Top 61 Greatest Music Albums | 22/61 | 64 |
| 2025 | juanr1096 | Top 100 Music Albums of 2022 | 56/100 | 2 |
| 2025 | Top 99 Music Albums of the 2020s | 37/99 | 6 | |
| 2025 | VanillaBean | Top 27 Music Albums of 2022 | 1/27 | 5 |
| 2024 | Top 100 Music Albums of 2022 | 94/100 | 0 | |
| 2024 | Jamie | Top 100 Music Albums of 2022 | 17/100 | 4 |
| 2022 | Top 81 Music Albums of 2022 | 31/81 | 3 | |
| 2022 | Top 97 Music Albums of 2022 | 51/97 | 2 | |
| Total Charts: The total number of charts that this album has appeared in. | 12 | |||
| Total Rank Score: The total rank score. | 140 | |||
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We're Not Here To Be Loved ratings
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| Rating | Date updated | Member | Album ratings | Avg. album rating |
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| ! | 08/26/2025 17:01 | 1,479 | 68/100 | |
| ! | 01/03/2025 21:56 | 1,459 | 80/100 | |
| ! | 01/12/2024 01:38 | 2,803 | 74/100 | |
| ! | 12/17/2023 05:02 | burrataspit | 74 | 88/100 |
| ! | 12/11/2023 00:20 | VanillaBean | 1,181 | 79/100 |
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This album has a Bayesian average rating of 70.7/100, a mean average of 69.7/100, and a trimmed mean (excluding outliers) of 69.7/100. The standard deviation for this album is 12.8.
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Okay so when Fleshwater, a Vein.fm post-hardcore/alternative metal side project, dropped "demo" I was ecstatic. The demo version of "Linda Claire" sounded like the perfect merge of 90s hardcore and late 2010s indie female vocals. With enough DIY muddiness in the mix that it sounded unique and compelling, the 7 minute 3-song release was a sign of real potential. However, We're Not Here To Be Loved strips all that away and instead gives us exceedingly clean sterile mixes, demonstrating that Fleshwater is a band with great technical competency over the genre but no aesthetic taste whatsoever – "demo" was a fluke. The Razor's Apple is still an alright song, and there's nice moments like in the short Kiss the Ladder, but there's nothing else here really worthwhile.
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